This article discusses ten common dating mistakes, and what you can do to avoid them in the future. Game playing: This strategy is usually employed for one of two reasons. When it comes to dating, everyone, on some level, fears rejection.Playing it cool and not getting too involved may make you feel safe, but you risk coming across as aloof or remote, and may turn the other person off.Over the last six years I've interacted with many college students who, from all I can tell, are walking with the Lord and pursuing holiness, but as soon as they start dating they seem to surrender to sexual sin. There are many reasons, but here are three dangers to avoid.Acting Like A Non-Christian This should seem so obvious that it's almost not even worth mentioning--except that it's biblical.Dating is rarely “easy,” but sometimes we make it harder than it needs to be. If the answer is yes, hope to have another date, not a wedding.Here are 13 mistakes people make when looking for love: Instead of looking at your date as a potential life partner right off the bat, try to look at them as someone you might want to see again. We mistakenly think we ought to lose 10 pounds, finish school, become more confident, get a job, or get over a past relationship before we enter the dating world. Try to take away something from the process of the date, not the outcome.
But oh how we hate not getting what we want when we want it!Just like a parent with a child, God knows better than we do and he desires our good even more than we do.When I tell my son not to run into the street it's not to kill his joy but to increase and prolong it.Instead of focusing on the boxes a date checks off, focus on how they make you feel. Sometimes, the job’s not right for you and sometimes you’re not right for it.If we were to assume that we’re not hirable because we didn’t get the first job we applied for, we’d never apply for a job again.