You shouldn’t have to beg for a scrap of his attention or back him into a corner to fix up a date; only see him late at night or put up with flaky timekeeping or being stood up.
It may be that he was really attentive when you first met and swept you off your feet with his advances but as the relationship has moved on he has become more and more elusive, sometimes disappearing for days or weeks at a time.
Many women make the mistake of taking his physical passion as a sign of deepening emotional intimacy – it isn’t.
When a guy really likes you, it’s usually pretty obvious. The uncertainty usually runs rampant if a guy seems to fall somewhere in between.
He disappears for days at a time and then texts you the sweetest message you’ve ever received.
The tone is generally set early on, indicating if one dinner will lead to another versus a quick peck on the cheek, "Great getting to know you" ending.
Truth be told, people act on their feelings when in love (or lust).