If the man in question were a passive kind of guy, one who feels inhibited about approaching woman and asking her out, he probably wouldn’t mind a woman taking the initiative.
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We get this feeling in our guts because the high level of emotion and attention they are giving us is unrealistic in proportion to how little they know us and how little time they’ve actually spent with us. They reach the climax way too fast then stop abruptly when the thrill is over.
They turn up the heat to the max in a very short time and then turn it off in a very short time.
I wrote to you about a year ago about a problem I had with talking to women, and since then things have improved, but I’m in a bit of a situation. One the one hand, I’m scared that if I’m coming across as too eager.
The thing is though, I’m currently torn between two conflicting, but very real, fears.
In other words, is this a fear based in reality or one you think might happen because it has happened to her in the past?
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She’s told me that her last two exes were very possessive and very controlling, and I’m worried that if I am coming across as too eager, she’s gonna think I’m the same and decide I’m not worth the effort.
On the other hand however, I’m scared that if I hold back and try to be more aloof she’ll think I’m not into her or her feelings will fade.
The guy who is coming on too strong is not connected to you or your emotions.
He is selfish, he needs to fill a void within himself and he is obsessed with getting his own needs met.