This means being able to hold a decent conversation with a healthy amount of genuine humor thrown in. On the other hand, keep your own life a mystery, women are intrigued by this. Phone calls and text messages are acceptable in the beginning, but don’t try to build the relationship like this.Don’t force humor; wait until a natural moment to spontaneously show your funny side. Phones are only tools to create a time and place to spend more time together.
Married men are healthier, more likely to be employed and more responsible: infinitely more appealing than some guy who still lives at home with his parents, gets his washing done by mum and is still ‘finding his feet’ career wise at the age of 35.‘Mate poaching’ is a contradictory phenomenon: you’re attracted to someone because they’re capable of commitment but if you’re able to seduce them, they’re clearly not capable of behaving in a committed way.He spends time with you, and then goes home to play Daddy. It seems so obvious, yet every couple of days, there’s an email from a woman telling me how a married guy is playing them.It’s always the same promises, and these women are deep into this thing. It’s just a fact, and there’s nothing you can do about it. If he was truly in love with you, he’d be planning his escape to you as we speak.He has a wife, he has children, and he has commitments.All that’s happening is he’s not getting what he needs at home, so you’re giving it to him instead. He has the best of both worlds, and he knows full well he’s playing you.