What the family I worked with came to understand is that when it came to their daughter, if it wasn’t one loser it would be another loser.In other words, it was pointless to focus their attention and energy on helping her get rid of her current biggest loser.Often, girls are stuck with a loser due to personal history.It's amazing how quickly the cool “bad boy” becomes the not-so-cool carwash attendant. You’re also single, and looking, but it isn’t working.You’ve been on dozens of first dates, and gamely accepted every introduction that’s come your way, but that spark—that someone special—keeps eluding you. Intrigued, you head to the address, a “Membership Centre” in Westwood Village, where you’re greeted warmly, ushered to a seat and the lights dim.His photo was years out of date and he had lied about his height. He was a midget with a comb-over and the conversational skills of a libidinous teenager.
Either way, it's time to show him and his greasy ponytail the exit.1. He is over the age of 25 and trying to get his “band” going.10. He looks like or dresses like a “Jersey Shore” cast member.15. He has he been to Jersey Shore.[insert Jersey Shore image]17. He barks and growls when he sees his own reflection.23.
Then one day, tucked among your magazines and bills, you find a strange piece of junk mail. These days, as everyone knows, you can swipe through a city’s worth of potential dates while waiting in line at the bodega.
But for decades, if you wanted to gaze upon a plethora of eligible singles, you had to go to a repurposed office building during open hours and watch them flicker by onscreen, spooled through Sony Betamax SLO-320s. The 1970s was not only a time of sexual freedom, but also relationship tumult.
Everyone knows a loser when they see one — that is, until they're dating one.
Check out these signs that might help you figure out if you're dating a loser…Before we start, it's important to clarify what we mean by “loser.”We aren't talking about a “nerd” loser, like someone who knows all the letters in the alphabet and who has probably been plotting to kill us for years of torment in high school.