If you are the ambitious sort and more importantly if your partner sees the potential in you, he is well placed to make a few phone calls and unlock a few doors of opportunity for you.Call it having a mentor or a sugar daddy but in fact a lot of successful women today are where they are because they received a little help from their richer and older partners.
Dating an older woman is really awesome, so be open to this idea and try it out!
True he might conveniently die of a heart attack at 80, having been a spry old thing up to the day he dies, but however full of beans he is, if he's like most men he'll be losing interest in sex just at the time when many women feel most sexually free, and another rather crucial part of the marriage may be going down the drain. (a state of affairs that is becoming increasing common, according to Denise Knowles of Relate) Same applies.
But there's the added disadvantage that the older woman might not be able to have children, and since there's nothing most men like more than reproducing themselves - it's in their jeans, as the actress said to the bishop - there may come a time when he starts looking around for someone who's fertile.
Where it was once unimaginable for women to ask men out, or declare sexual interest in them first, they are now being encouraged to get their game on.
To some extent, the ice-cold Nigerian attitude towards women dating younger men has begun to thaw, but there still seems to be a long way before the idea flows into all cultures and becomes truly mainstream.