It takes a lot of hard work to find and attract a suitable partner.
Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
There are huge stereotypes about who a dominant woman should be: a business woman, assertive in all areas of life; someone who wears leather boots and a corset every day.
If you are looking for the dominatrix on CSI, you are going to find yourself very disappointed.
It seems inappropriate to post that on normal dating sites.
The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.